What's done is done(木已成舟)
Once upon a time, there was a little boy,Hank, who liked to say whatever he thought in mind. He was a simple-minded boy in a small village and meant no harm to people. However, the one thing which mattered a lot in the real world was the interpersonal relationship. We could eat all kinds of food as we like, yet we could not say what we think in mind. One day, a wise and old man came in town and heard people speaking ill of the little boy. Few people in the village liked the little boy, let alone liked his parents. Hence, Hank's mom came to see the wise man, asking for help. “ Take your boy here,” said the wise man, “Remember a nail and a hammer with him.”
The little boy came to
the old man and shouted,” What’s up! Old man!” The old man just smiled and told
him to take the nail and hammer out. The old man took the boy under a tree and
told the boy to nail the tree with the hammer. The little boy did as told. The
old man asked him to pull the nail out. The boy tried hard to pull it out. The
old man said,” Did you see a big hole in the tree?” “ Ya, that was a big one,” said
the boy. “ Could you fix the hole?” the
old man smiled. “ Not a chance! How can I fix a big hole like this?” the boy
shouted. “ Your words are like the big
hole. It’s done and you cannot fix it.”
“ You cannot fix it even you say sorry,” said the old man, “ People
always think a sorry can fix everything, but what’s done is done. Think before
you say it, rather say what you think.”
Am
10-Dec-15
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